It is the opinion of some that monogamy is a “lie” and a dying social construct remnant of archaic religious traditions.
I read that crap in someone else’s blog and it’s gotten a little bit of a bee in my bonnet.
Monogamy is no more a lie than any other relationship orientation. At the end of the day it comes down to different strokes for different boats – just as there are various sexual orientations there are relationship types, and none is better or more right than the other.
I am a monogamous individual. This is not because of religion, or societies expectations, culture, or what my family have taught me. I am monogamous because it is what my heart is and wants. I am not battling any hidden biological drives to spread my seed elsewhere – my loins tingle for the one and only one love in my life.
So why doesn’t everyone just quit trying to justify their way of living or beliefs by minimalising and demeaning others?
Lamebos just need to accept that there are different ways of life in many aspects of life and all that, so pop your head out of your microcosm once in a while and just accept that people are different to you :-)